Baby Showers As A “Village” Ritual And The Nuance of An All-Female Village

So, one of our friends and her partner are about to bring a baby girl into this world. It will be a Thanksgiving baby and I have to say there is a whole village of Lesbians in our circle of friends who are so thankful to have a new little human to welcome to the … Continue reading Baby Showers As A “Village” Ritual And The Nuance of An All-Female Village

The Art Of Drag

  Last night after a long week, my wife and I decided on a date night that started with a lovely dinner out.  Over desert we pondered our next move; not ready to go home just yet.  The choice was between an upscale "grown folks" lounge up the street and the neighborhood Gay nightclub where … Continue reading The Art Of Drag

Why it’s Okay to Be Gay

Have you noticed a turning tide lately? That the "gay" thing (unless you are a religious fundamentalist or just plain scared) is slowly but surely becoming less of a novelty and more of a social matter of course? Sure, our legislation in the U.S. (and even more harshly elsewhere) doesn't entirely reflect that, but it's … Continue reading Why it’s Okay to Be Gay

Lesbians in the Midst…

I figured what better way to start getting a readership base than to write about Lesbians. People LOVE to read about lesbians! That and I have found some of my own lived experiences to be particularly anthropologically fascinating in nature. Yes, it's true. I have a wife and I am a female. That makes me … Continue reading Lesbians in the Midst…